“Falling In Lust”
What is more important, marriage or your career?
Which do you think is more likely you will swap after 5 years???
What does it say about the value of relationships when we don’t strive to preserve them, instead taking the easier path of whatever feels good at the time. Love could perhaps be defined as caring about someone else more than yourself. If this were true would the divorce rate be as high as it is? Would something like this happen? Would we even see marital problems decrease as we collectively strive to be more selfless toward each other?
Too much emphasis is placed on how your partner makes you feel. Of which, could be considered a “selfish” state of mind. If we were more concerned about being more “selfless” (and not being so worried about “getting our share" or “what I deserve”)
Also, this does not even begin to focus on our responsibilities to our children.
Maybe we should turn marriage into a a system similar to leasing automobiles. 5 years and you get to trade it in for a new one.
Well at least they “felt bad” about it….lol
(ORIGINAL LINK) Today Show: Falling in love with another’s spouse
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